I choose stronger.
Stories are how we whittle meaning out of life.
The stories we tell ourselves about what happened are particularly important.
What do you tell yourself about what happened to you, the wound you received, the business that went under, the marriage that failed?
Did it make you weaker or stronger?
Both stories are true and both will direct your life, you can choose which one to focus on.
Get skin in the game, live a better story.